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Here is how to turn a child's perspective from I can't  to I can! While children and adults on the Autism Spectrum certainly need solid and as wide as possible "I can" networks, it's important to remember that every  child and even adults need to be encouraged, sometimes even nudged a bit toward a spirit of capability. Never underestimate the value that your skills, wisdom, or talents can bring to another person's journey or experience. And yes, you have something  to offer. It's usually the simple things that are the most memorable and often make the biggest difference. And our time and attention are two of the most precious gifts we can ever give another person.  Can you become another thread in someone else's support web? Can you play a few games with a child to help them practice taking turns and see someone modeling good sportsmanship? Do you know how to cook or bake? Sew? Oil a bike chain? Enjoy animals? Hiking? Changing...

I love Jacob's story, not just because he is amazing and appreciates his autism, but because his parents didn't try to change him to fit their ideas of who he should be. They took notice of what engaged him and embraced it, using his interests to connect with him, and allow him to feel safe and confident in himself. I admire them for this. And this is the gift we try to give our kids. Acceptance and complete support. My son has not displayed a genius talent for math or astrophysics, nor do I have any expectation that he will. But when I watched Jacob for the first time, I was almost unsettled at how many similarities I observed between him and Zak. Then it made me smile a lot, and cry a little, because I felt reaffirmation that we are on the right track as a family. While their passions are focused on different things, the excitement with which they both talk about what they love is so similar. The knowledge and interests ahead of their years paired with such innoc...